Our Mission
Reminding people of the power of good conversations.
SPILL IT was built on the belief that the best moments happen when people feel free to be themselves. Whether you're unpacking hot takes or laughing over viral tweets, something special happens when folks get vulnerable, get loud, and just get into it.
Our mission is simple: to make sure everyone gets the opportunity to feel seen, heard, and connected.
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College brought us together, but wine nights made us friends.
What started as a fun way to decompress after class quickly became the foundation of our friendship. As God would have it, three strangers from Georgia, Minnesota, and California became study partners in Hampton's 5-Year MBA Program, shoutout to our Home by the Sea.
After a long week of classes, late-night study sessions, and exams, we’d text our friends to come over and unwind. The only entry fee being to bring a bottle of your favorite wine.
We’d keep the energy high, diving into viral Twitter moments, hot takes on HBCU confessions, which always sparked passionate, hilarious, and sometimes downright wild debates.
A little wine + good company often led to night of great, often spicy conversations.
And we knew it Wine Nights became a big tradition for us.
And without even realizing it, we’d created something special—a space to laugh hard, connect deeply, and say the things you don’t always get to say. That tradition evolved into SPILL IT.
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Meet the Founders
Brandy, Christian, and Elexxus


